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5 Major Questions You NEED to Ask Yourself If Your Want Your Ex Back

Do You Really Want Your Ex Back?
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Most people suffering from heartbreak immediately want their relationship with their ex back. If you are considering getting back with your ex after your heart has been broken, there are five critical questions that you MUST ask yourself to make sure you are doing the right thing for your heart. Beware!   If you do not honestly answer these questions, you could end up in much more pain than you are currently experiencing.

1. Why do you want to get back with your ex in the first place?

Do you want them back in your life because of your own fear and insecurity or neediness? Do you really love them unconditionally? If  you find that your reasons for wanting them back in your life have a basis of self-serving motives, then maybe you want them back for all the wrong reasons.

2. How do you plan to make your relationship work better this time around?

You broke up for a reason. What was it and how do you plan to make it work if you get another chance? If you are not capable of making the compromises and changes that you need to make to make your relationship with them work this time around, maybe you might want to rethink giving your relationship another shot.

3. Are you completely over the emotional pain of the initial break up?

Break ups can knock the wind out of your sails. The pain of heartbreak can make you view the person you once loved differently. If you can honestly say that you no longer feel hurt by their actions, then you are ready to pursue another chance with your ex. However, if you feel bitter or any form of resentment about your break up, then there is a great chance that these feelings with put a damper on your reunion.

4. Have you fully forgiven your ex of their past transgressions?

Have you taken the necessary steps to forgive your ex of anything that you feel they did wrong to you in the past? Forgiveness takes a lot of effort. If you have not forgiven even the slightest hurt, you are bound to ruin your relationship again.

5. Will your relationship be stable enough to endure any future problems?

Let’s face it. Your relationship was fragile or else you would have never broken up to begin with. If you really want to get your ex back, you need to evaluate your old relationship and rebuild a new relationship on solid ground. If you don’t, even a light breeze can knock down your relationship if you can’t even weather this storm.

When determining if you want your ex back, it is important to look at the reasons you want to be with your ex again.  If you want to be with them again for all the wrong reasons, the chances of making your relationship with your ex work will diminish.  You should do everything to ensure that your ex does not remain in control of your life or you will remain powerless to them in the future.

Your real focus should remain on healing your heartbreak completely before you begin to seek rebuilding a relationship with your ex.  Sometimes it is in the best interest of your heart to move on and find love elsewhere.

~Here’s to your healing!


Nina Appleby is the author of Heal Heartbreak Now!, which is a 5 step program that allows you to move past the pain of heartbreak, find endless happiness within yourself, and experience Real Love .

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